Now of course, some of you do understand that that is kind of my preference in clothing but I’m not here dictating saying that any other styles in fashion are wrong or are not appropriate, not at all! I do embrace differences and that everybody should find their own style, have their own voice and so on. But I just think that if you are somebody who isn’t sure and you want to blend in with high society and you just want to play it safe, then dress elegantly.
It will always remain in style, meaning that you can actually afford to invest in very expensive clothes because they will last you year after year. You don’t have to jump so much of the trends and just buy clothes that you only wear a season or two. Second of all elegant fashion really looks good on everyone and I’m talking about age, I’m talking about body shapes. Everybody can add a bit of elegance to their outfits and actually really benefit from it. Lastly, if you are somebody who wants to marry up, who want to have an affluent man in your life, then dressing elegantly tend to attract them rather than push them away. But anyway, let me jump straight into the content of this video because there are beginner mistakes that I really don’t want you to do ladies, so listen up!
And with that, I mean for instance women who tend to wear clothes, they’re a little bit too small, that’s not very flattering and it’s definitely not good dress code etiquette. Second of all, you have women who are not kind of shaping their bodies. If they have a bit of curve or perhaps not in the right places, then you know sometimes it’s required to tuck a few things in to make yourself look better and also kind of you know not to distract the viewer far too much from whatever is going on there. You don’t want to be all over the place, okay? You wanna have a nice silhouette, whatever you can achieve and I’m not specifically talking about plus-sized women now, I’m talking about everybody. We all have things that we can tuck in, that we can camouflage. We all have features that are better and features that are maybe not as good.
And this is the thing girls, you have to understand what are your best features, what should you enhance, what are the ones that are not really serving you so well? And really, that is the secret to always looking your best and also presentable. Now the second mistake and this is very very common one in high society. I guess it comes a little bit from the imposter syndrome that a lot of where you know a lot of beginners tend to feel it initially.
That is the one when you’re just trying too hard to impress and frankly, I keep seeing almost everyone go through this face at some point. It can be anything from like having the stereotypical view on what an affluent person dresses like and you just kind of try and you know do all that. And this is the thing where people get wrong because if you actually have experience in high society, have a look around and you will see that the majority of wealthy people and especially those with class, they don’t dress like that! Discretion is very important in high society.
Being dressed appropriately and for the occasion, it’s also very important. When you’re just coming in there and really you know trying too hard, people know immediately that either you’re a beginner or you just you know you’re just insecure, so don’t do that mistake! And then we also have this very common one that is not only in high society, when women are trying to somehow stand out or overcompensate, or just really trying hard to impress by showing more skin, by being more sexy, by really you know going the provocative route. And yeah, I mean of course you will get some eyeballs on you but it’s also showing that, first of all, you are a beginner because it just screams insecurity. Women who do not have a strong need for validation and for all eyes on them, they’re the ones who appear very confident and very experienced. So you are truly winning when you’re covering it up and keeping it a little bit more elegant.
Is probably as common as the one I just spoke about. But it’s about thinking that the items you wear are more expensive looking than they actually are. And sadly you know this is not easy for people to really figure it out and it does take time to understand what fabrics look expensive, what styles look expensive and what doesn’t. Now, ladies, I do have a free cheat sheet called How to Look Expensive.
It’s basically a quick guide for those who want to have a little bit of help whenever they choose an outfit, will go shopping and kind of just have a little quick overview of, okay what should I buy, what should I not wear and so on. But it doesn’t mean it’s not a skill that cannot develop in you.
Definitely my cheat sheet is going to help because it gives you this introduction and the kind of basic principles that you should be aware of. But what you have to do is just start practicing and you know, try to analyze clothes, and try to educate yourself at the same time. Practice will make perfection, and then you will be able to master these ladies and you will be totally safe on this point.